Command. Obey. Surrender.

Crown & Collar is a monthly ritual of queer men’s kink indulgence.
Curated for those who crave dominance as performance, submission as spectacle, and the kind of tension that only queer men can conjure.

Hosted at The Brass Rail in Minneapolis, Crown & Collar is where sleek power dynamics, sensual performance, and luxurious misbehavior come together under low lights and sharp eyes. It’s not a party. It’s a provocation.

For the Men Who Know

This event is designed for queer men—those who move through the world with hunger, humor, and heat. Whether you serve, worship, watch, or wield, this space was made with you in mind.

A Note on Space & Intention

Crown & Collar is a queer male space.

This event is designed by and for queer men—cis and trans alike. The aesthetic, performances, and erotic language of the night are rooted in queer men’s desire: sacred, filthy, tender, brutal, and ours.

While we do not police identity at the door, we do expect all guests to honor the space they enter. If you are not a queer man and choose to attend, you are a guest, not the audience this ritual was built to serve. Move with awareness. Observe without centering yourself.

This is not a space for bachelorette parties, bridal veils, or ironic tourism. There are other clubs for that. Crown & Collar is a sanctuary of queer men’s desire—not a spectacle for outsiders. If your night out relies on making us your entertainment, this is not your room.

We ask this with clarity and care: respect the House of Crown & Collar, or do not enter it.

What to Expect

  • Stripping, lap dances, fetish acts, and high-gloss kink performance.

  • Go-go gods and stage devils who don’t just tease—they command… or submit.

  • The House Deck: Buy a card. Activate a scene. Watch the room react.

  • Rotating themes that range from decadent to depraved.

The House Deck

You don’t control the scene. You spark it.

The House Deck invites you to tip the ritual into motion. When you purchase a card, you’re not giving a command—you’re activating a moment that’s already been written in lust, power, and precision.

You choose your tier, then select from a curated fan of visible cards—each named like a whispered dare. Kiss the Ring. On Your Knees. Spoil Me. Crawl. What happens next is up to the House and the performer, but the moment is yours to claim.

Each tier also includes a Wild Card themed for that event—a single sealed choice. No name. No hints. Just a sigil, and a promise:
You won’t regret it. But you’ll ache for what it unlocks.

The Tiers:

  • Command — Flirty, bold, and unapologetically showy. A quick burst of erotic bravado.

  • Obey — Structured kink. These scenes play with power, posture, and control.

  • Surrender — Deep submission, full vulnerability. Nudity, restraint, and ritual may be involved.

  • Black Envelope — The House unleashed. Multi-performer, high-intensity scenes that leave a mark.

You won’t choose the performers. You won’t control the outcome.
But your card is the match. And the House is already soaked in oil.

  • Your initiation into the House.
    A quick, confident, no-shame moment of erotic theater. Performed publicly, delivered with heat, and always opt-in.

    You might see:
    A shirt rips open and a performer bends over the edge of the stage—hands behind his back, waiting for praise or verbal punishment.

  • You give the order. The House obeys—within limits.
    Powerplay meets performance. Expect edge, spectacle, and the thrill of being watched giving the command.

    You might see:
    A masked man crawls across the floor to you, mouth open, and waits to be told exactly how to beg.

  • You gave permission. The House takes it from here.
    This is where performers offer up something more intense—humiliation, worship, degradation, praise—whatever they negotiated in advance. You’re not controlling it. You’re witnessing the fall.

    You might see:
    The performer is stripped to their boots, and forced to count the strikes out loud as another circles him with a riding crop.

  • This is the House unbound.
    Multi-performer. Pre-approved. High-impact. The Black Envelope unlocks scenes with teeth—blasphemous, filthy, and unforgettable. What’s inside changes every time.

    You might see:
    A man is blindfolded and bent over the altar, gasping as one gloved hand pushes between his thighs, another grips his hair, and a third mouths filth into his ear loud enough for the front row to blush. And then…

F.A.Q

  • No. Crown & Collar is an erotic performance event—think strippers, go-go dancers, ritual scenes, and kink-themed stage acts. It’s flirtation, not fornication. What happens after the party is your business.

  • Only if they invite you to. Consent must be verbal, explicit, and specific. Performers offering lap dances or House Deck scenes will signal that availability—never assume.

  • No dress code is enforced—but we encourage you to arrive as your most dangerous self. Leather, lace, mesh, ritualwear, heels, or harnesses—this is a space to indulge in aesthetic power.

  • Crown & Collar centers queer men, both cis and trans, in its energy, eroticism, and focus. While we do not gatekeep entry, we ask all attendees to respect the space’s purpose and tone.

  • The Outer Ring ($20) is general admission: full access to the dance floor, bar, performers, and lap dances.
    The Inner Circle ($40) offers a reserved viewing platform for House Deck scenes, early access, and one free House Card (Command-tier).

  • They’re scene activators. Buy one, turn it in, and you’ll spark a short performance—spanking, stripping, worship, teasing—by a House performer.
    There are tiers for every appetite. Think of it as tipping… with consequences.

  • No photos, videos, or recordings during scenes or performances. Our house photographer will capture pre-approved content for socials. If we catch you filming, you will be removed.